I’m, also, not talking about loving from a distance, wishing and hoping theobject of your affection would notice you. What I am talking about is beinginvolved with someone who doesn’t have the same depth of feelings for you asyou do for him or her. The person likes you all right and is willing to spendtime with you but he or she just doesn’t love you the same as you love him orher.
How does that feel? Does it feel painful, as if you were losing out onsomething? I’m suggesting here that that kind of experience doesn’t have to bepainful. If you are a person who loves deeply and intensely, you may notencounter someone to return the same depth of feeling that you have but thatdoesn’t mean the person you are with doesn’t give you all he or she has.
When you find someone to love that way and it feels so intense you think youmight explode with excitement and happiness sometimes, that is a privilege---nomatter what the other person returns to you. The simple act of loving anotheris truly a gift. How many people do you think go through life without everloving that way? Too many!
When you have been given the honor and privilege of finding someone to love sointensely, enjoy the opportunity to share your feelings with the other person.Please don’t ruin that experience by deciding that if the other person doesn’tlove you the same way or as strongly as you, then somehow that diminishes thelove you feel for him or her.
Love is a gift. Give yours freely with no strings attached and you will beamazed at the satisfaction and unadulterated joy you can feel. It’s truly anamazing experience. Do you have one to share?Posted at 06:06 PM in Relationships | PermalinkTrackBack
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Happiness is so hard to define and foolish to define. Am I acting? That's the worst thing you can ask yourself. You can be happy suddenly. It can spring on you, not when you reach a plateau. You can be happy going backward or going down. You can be happy at the loss of something. Do you agree?
According to me there is no condition when you love some one that in return you get the same affection and love.. It happens that you care more then anybody, you want to see the other person happy without getting back the same.. This is what we called a true love..
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