Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Not Sure Where Your Relationship is Going?
Ask yourself how you feel towards these ambitions? Do you see yourself with this person forever or do you feel that you will be questioning this for the rest of your lives together?
Either way, you need to follow your heart. If you are always questioning your relationship, I can assure you now that it may not be the right one for you. You will know this when the right person comes your way.
Although, there are ways in adapting and fixing your relationship if that is your will to do so. Start by what makes you happy most of all before anything else.
Monday, May 30, 2011
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If you or your spouse has been unfaithful but you both feel that there is still something in the relationship worth saving, it's time for a gut check. Don't think that the road to save your marriage will be smooth or short. You had better prepare for a rough ride, and it's going to have a much better chance of working if you enlist the help of a professional counselor to help clear the path, as much as possible.
Here's a few things to keep in mind:
1. If the person who committed the adultery is a serial cheater, why stay at all? Come on,who are you kidding? No matter how much you may love them, they are flawed. They aren't ever going to change they are just going to make your life miserable at best, and at worst they'll bring some nasty disease home and clear out your bank account. Leave.
If this was a one time lapse in judgment, and let's be honest, in the right circumstances any of us could have one, than you might have a chance but only if the offending party is truly sorry and will, or already has, stopped seeing the other person. If they won't commit 100% to making things work, it won't work. Again, it's best to leave.
2. As hard as it may be to face, it might help if the two of you could talk openly about what they found so irresistible in the other person. It's going to hurt, but the reality is that people don't cheat for sex, though that is part of it, they cheat because they get something from the other person that they don't get from their spouse.
Sometimes it can be something 'real' like feeling needed or loved. Other times it's not 'real' it's childish, like feeling like they are the only one that matters in the relationship. Finding out what the attraction was might help the two of you recapture something that has been lost in your relationship, something that you may not even have realized was gone.
3. It's very important to the long term health of your relationship that the person who was cheated on can find a way to not throw it up in their partner's face every time there is a fight. And that will be hard. But unless you can truly forgive and forget, it won't work out.
On the other side of the coin, the person who strayed must understand that it can take a lifetime for their partner to really ever trust them again. Sorry, that's just the way it is.
However as a matter fact the person who went astray most own up to it,period.You know using the classic line that most people use for example "my wife/husband just doesn't understand me" will not help here.Why? Because you are asguilty as,may be more guilty in the failing of your marriage as your spouse.Do not kill your self because you did it,No..No.. instead admite what you did period and you will become a better person for it
If the two of you try hard enough you will easily get over it in no time.Think about these questions and they might help you to work on you marriage before you break up.
What are the reasons you might want to stay together:
* For the kids?
* It would be too expensive?
* You're afraid to be alone?
* For the security?
* It's against your religion?
* You're concerned about what everyone might think?
What if I told you it doesn't matter why you want to stay together, it only matters that you do.
That's all it takes to make the program Affair Repair work for you, that is not only to save your marriage, but actually make it better than it was before.
Sunday, May 29, 2011
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Friday, May 27, 2011
4 powerful Tips to help you Win Over The Man You Love Dating
Here are some easy steps you can follow that may help 'push' things along:
1. Talk to him. Tell him what you want. Be careful how you approach this because you don't want to sound whiny or needy (if this is something you really want and you really feel strongly about it's easy to sound a little desperate if you're not careful). Again, don't just tell him you want to take things to the next level, be clear on what that means to you.
2. It's important that you don't push the issue. It's great to bring it up after all, you can't expect him to read your mind can you? You just have to make sure that you're going to be able to accept whatever he wants without getting upset. If the two of you have been together for a while and this topic has never come up it's almost a sure bet that he isn't interested in taking things to the next level, if he were he would have already brought it up (of course, it's possible that he's just shy or afraid to bring it up because he didn't know what you'd say and he got scared).
3. If he isn't interested in making any changes then have a mature, calm, conversation with him and ask him to explain what he means. Does he mean that he can see the two of you moving forward some time in the future, but he's just not ready right now? Or does he mean he doesn't see your relationship going much further than it is right now? These may be tough questions to ask, and tough answers to hear, but it's important that you find out where he's at when it comes to your relationship.
4. If the two of you have the same basic idea of where the relationship will go, you're just not on the same page when it comes to a time line, then that's actually Ok. At least you both see the relationship heading in the same direction. If your guy doesn't see any future in the relationship you're going to have to face a really tough decision: stay or go. Many women will stay and think that they can change his mind, and maybe you can, but you shouldn't. Even if you can talk him (or threaten him) into moving the relationship along, is that really the best foundation for a future? You had to force someone to be with you? No so much, it'll be hard but you are better off just moving on.
Many people find themselves in a great relationship and they want to take things to the next level, whatever that may mean to them. If you want to stop dating and move up to the next level you can follow this advice to win over man you love dating and move things along a bit faster.
Thursday, May 26, 2011
Are You Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back?
I’m, also, not talking about loving from a distance, wishing and hoping theobject of your affection would notice you. What I am talking about is beinginvolved with someone who doesn’t have the same depth of feelings for you asyou do for him or her. The person likes you all right and is willing to spendtime with you but he or she just doesn’t love you the same as you love him orher.
How does that feel? Does it feel painful, as if you were losing out onsomething? I’m suggesting here that that kind of experience doesn’t have to bepainful. If you are a person who loves deeply and intensely, you may notencounter someone to return the same depth of feeling that you have but thatdoesn’t mean the person you are with doesn’t give you all he or she has.
When you find someone to love that way and it feels so intense you think youmight explode with excitement and happiness sometimes, that is a privilege---nomatter what the other person returns to you. The simple act of loving anotheris truly a gift. How many people do you think go through life without everloving that way? Too many!
When you have been given the honor and privilege of finding someone to love sointensely, enjoy the opportunity to share your feelings with the other person.Please don’t ruin that experience by deciding that if the other person doesn’tlove you the same way or as strongly as you, then somehow that diminishes thelove you feel for him or her.
Love is a gift. Give yours freely with no strings attached and you will beamazed at the satisfaction and unadulterated joy you can feel. It’s truly anamazing experience. Do you have one to share?Posted at 06:06 PM in Relationships | PermalinkTrackBack
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Wednesday, May 25, 2011
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Tuesday, May 24, 2011
How To Save Your Relationship From Smothering Your Partner
If at anytime in the back of your mind you are interested more in where and with who your partner is spending time with rather than calling to speak to him or her, then you are smothering. If you call your partner more than two or three times a day and more on the days that you do not see each other, your partner will feel trapped. Instead of having time to appreciate you from afar, he or she is running towards the exit. One way to get over this type of smothering act is to occupy yourself. If you are busy, then you will not have time to make your frequent calls.
Do you try to spend every waking moment with your partner? At first it may be a sweet gesture but after a while there must be some sort of separation between the two of you. If you are forcing your partner to give up seeing his or her friends, just to spend time with you then you are definitely smothering your significant other. People love to talk about how great their partner is, but how can yours if you do not let him or her out of your site. Normally, your insecurities in the relationship cause you to try to take control over your partner’s life. The less time he or she has to their self, the less your partner is going to want to stick around.
Love naturally leaves you. You think about this person positively and you do not find it necessary to get in contact every time you think about this person. Give yourself some space to see how much your partner loves you. See the things that he or she will do for your love. You will notice that there is a lot less fighting and many more romantic gestures when you allow this space for your relationship and individuality to grow. It is difficult for many people at first, once they realize that they have been smothering rather than loving. But recognizing this crucial dating mistake is half the battle. Now all you have to do is find ways to separate yourself a bit. You will go from having a rocky relationship to a rock solid one.
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Monday, May 23, 2011
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Sunday, May 22, 2011
Do You Know Why Women Leave Men
In anylong term relationship things pile up. Little frustrations, hurts, insensitive remarks can all add up over a period of time and each little thing is like a brick in a wall. After a while you will have one very big wall. That's the point where one party will throw their hands up and say 'Enough!" and leave. The important thing is to make sure your relationship never gets to that point.
One thing you have to do is un-learn much of what you've been told about women and what they want. If you think women are needy, and high maintenance you need to re-evaluate your thinking (of course some women are that way, but not most of them). While this may sound stupid here is something you should try: stop thinking of your woman as a woman, instead think of her as a person. Treat her the same way you like people to treat you.
One of the biggest mistakes men make is they either treat their woman like a whore, a surrogate mommy, or they go to the complete opposite side of the spectrum and put her on a pedestal where they treat her like she's made of porcelain. The best thing to do is treat her like a human being: a unique individual that has her own mind, needs, and wants. Get to know the real woman, not the person you want her to be, or think she should be.
Don't lump all women together. Don't assume your wife or girlfriend likes a certain thing or should act a certain way just because some other woman (or your mom) does. More than likely you have several male friends. Do you treat each one of them the exact same way, or do you modify your behaviour (slightly) for each unique relationship you have?
Women leave men because they are unsatisfied in one way or another. Each relationship is different but at the end of the day your wife or girlfriend will leave because she is not getting enough of her needs met, it's as simple as that.
Most women want their husband or boyfriend to be a friend and confidant. They want someone who acts like they actually like them. Many men don't act like they even like their women and they certainly don't treat them like a trusted friend.
Women have sexual needs just like men. Our society has done a huge disservice to men and women because it tells men they have this huge sex drive and that it's ok to pick up women whenever they want to and that women have to be 'good girls' who will only have sex with their husband.
The fact of the matter is, that is not true. Women have the same sex drive as men, they are just conditioned to not act on it whenever the whim hits them. What women don't want is to think that their man only wants them for sex. Women will often disconnect from their men physically because even though they like sex they also like non-sexual physical contact and many men think they have to turn every incident of physical contact into a sexual encounter. After a while your woman won't even want you to touch her, and she'll find someone else.
So to avoid having your girlfriend or wife leave you may want to start by answering the question: "why women leave men?" Treating your girlfriend or wife like someone whom you like and love may be by following if not all, some of these simple relationship tips and you will see the difference in your relationship. It will last a life time plus you will be a happy man for ever no matter the crises you all pass through
Saturday, May 21, 2011
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